[ SECRET POST #3773 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3773 ⌋

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[Notorious, Megan and Julia]


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[David Tennant in Broadchurch]


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[Paul Hollywood and Noel Fielding, Great British Bake Off]


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[The Americans]


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Comments

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

More likely your girlfriend is fucking depressed and it sounds like you care more about your own problems than asking her if everything is okay.

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

Wow. Not helpful.

Yes, it is possible OP's GF is depressed. It's also possible she's no longer attracted to OP and is scared to admit it, or scared to initiate intimacy for other reasons that have nothing to do with how she feels about OP. At least OP tried to open a conversation about it. Whether or not it was framed in a "me me me" manner is highly unclear (for all you know, OP could have started with "is everything okay?"), but really, how in the hell else will a conversation get started? OP has a right to their feelings, and it's really insensitive to suggest GF's behavior doesn't affect them in the least.

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

Wow. You sound like such a lovely person.

OP - try bringing it up again and if you gf starts crying, instead of backpedaling try asking her why she's crying. Get to the root of it. She could be manipulative and crying to get you to back off, or there could be underlying issues to this entire situation. But backing off when emotions get high and backpedaling won't solve anything.

Good luck. Relationships are hard work, but hopefully this one is worth it!