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⌈ Secret Post #3774 ⌋

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Re: Romantic advice/rant thread

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah, I guess so. I mean I'm from a... small city, I guess? where public transportation doesn't exist so everyone drives everywhere and parking is always free and available. Even so, driving from one end of town to the other could easily take 35 minutes or so, depending on traffic. But that doesn't seem that terrible to me. An hour, on the other hand, is a quite a commitment, and I'm already not a very outgoing person. I'm the type that has to push myself to go out the door even for fun things - not that I don't enjoy socializing or trying new things, but the process of going out is a lot of mental work for me so the thought of putting a lot of time into the journey too is a little exasperating.

I mean, every time I've rejected her suggestions, I've mentioned time/distance being a factor. But I get the sense she's also a lot more outgoing than me, and like to find trendy, off-the-beaten-path events or bars or whatever. We may not be romantically compatible for a number of reasons in that regard. I'll suggest some closer places and if that doesn't work out, oh well.

Re: Romantic advice/rant thread

[diet_poison]

Sounds like she is just a lot more outgoing and adventurous. Maybe those are things you could do with her if you get to know her really well and pursue a friendship/romance? But sometimes it can be hard for people who are outgoing to understand how much labor that is for other people.

Definitely sounds like a conversation you should have. If you really hit it off with her then I hope you find a way to be friends at least! And maybe you can find some places that are interesting/exciting for her but not so hard to get to for you?