[ SECRET POST #3796 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3796 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[The Shining]


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04. https://i.imgbox.com/wgIVTiyN.gif
[moving gif, Doctor Who]


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05.
[Forever]


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06.
[Buffy the Vampire Slayer]


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07.
[Mortal Kombat 2]





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08. [SPOILERS for Steven Universe]



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09. [SPOILERS for Criminal Minds]
http://i.imgur.com/itjb0jk.jpg
[linked at OP's request / Criminal Minds - Kat Adams played by Aubrey Plaza(top), Lindsey Vaughn played by Gia Mantegna (bottom)]


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10. [WARNING for rape]

















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Comments

Re: Petty embarrassing friend shit

[(Anonymous)]

Well, I think it's pretty obvious there's an unhealthy dynamic in your friendship and saying that it's great 97% of the time doesn't mean a whole lot when you only see one another a few times a year. It's not that hard to avoid being a dick to someone you hardly ever see, so I'm going to gently disagree that this is a "solid" friendship. It's lasted a long time because you've put up with her bullshit for a long time. She's pushy and disrespectful of your time and needs because you've always caved and she expects you to cave again. She can't be the leader unless you follow.


My advice is to text her back with, "Sorry, maybe next time! Let me know if you're free to get together Saturday and Monday." But ONLY if you genuinely want to see her. If you don't, then maybe just say, "Sorry I can't make it, have fun!" and leave it at that. Don't try to explain or justify your decision, because that just leaves the door open for her to argue with you some more.

In the future, drawing some healthier boundaries for yourself and enforcing them consistently will lead to more functional relationships, anon. Good luck.