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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-05-30 06:53 pm

[ SECRET POST #3800 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3800 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Killing Stalking]


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[The 100, Echo and Bellamy]


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[Anne (the new remake of L.M. Montgomery's Anne of Green Gables)]


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[Pokémon ORAS]


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[Homestuck]


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Re: Arguments that spun out of control

(Anonymous) 2017-05-31 02:11 am (UTC)(link)
That person shouldn't have flipped out at you, that was a massive overreaction on their part.

However, that's not what friend-zoning is. Friend-zoning is when one person wants to have sex with another person, but person B doesn't feel that way about person A and just wants to be friends. So in a sense, the girl you replied to was probably right that she'd "friend-zoned" a guy. Her misconception was in believing in the idea of "friend-zoning" as an idea with any real validity.

In reality, "She friend-zoned me" is basically just saying, "She doesn't want to have sex with me and I feel distraught and resentful about it." It's a way of talking about someone not giving you something that belongs to them but which you want, as though they actually did something against you.