[ SECRET POST #3804 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3804 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Twin Peaks]


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03.
[Chris Pratt]


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[Banlieue 13/District B13]


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[American Gods]


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[Stephen Fry]


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07.
[Miraculous: Tales of Ladybug and Cat Noir]











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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

Avoiding my friend, who has just moved 15 mins away from where I live (instead of her previous 4 hours). I'm quite reclusive and on any given day would just like to stay at home, whereas she is the complete opposite and wants to constantly go out and about. Also she wants me to hang with her while she renovates her new house and...I don't really want to do that. I'm a shit friend, but I just really like my solitude.

[(Anonymous)]

I can understand this. I enjoy my friends but I'm a natural introvert and if I'm working a lot I'd rather spend any free time I have at home alone.

Sometimes I'm better with long distance friendships because I'm not pressure to go out all the time that way.

[(Anonymous)]

I don't think that's being a shit friend. You just have different levels of socialization needs than your friend does, and that's fine. Good luck on finding a feasible compromise.

[sarillia]

You sound like my best friend. She needs a lot more alone time than I do and I need a lot more interaction with people than she does, and it took time to work it out so we're both happy.

[(Anonymous)]

Oh my god, I'm not the only one who does stuff like this.

[diet_poison]

Has she lived in the area before? It could be that she's latching onto you because she needs socialization and doesn't know anyone else yet. Next time you do have the energy to go out, maybe introduce her to some people?

That said, she should realize you are introverted and don't have the energy to socialize all the time. As an extrovert I know we can be guilty of not being aware of this if we're not used to it, and sometimes it can be hard to talk about because it can be taken the wrong way. I'm sorry she's making you feel pressured. :( But she might really not know that it's draining to be around her all the time (and it's not BECAUSE of her individually). Hopefully you can talk to her about it, and if she is a good friend, she will understand.

[(Anonymous)]

I'm the same way. Plus, my friend is the sort who always seems to have some sort of constant relationship drama surrounding her, and sometimes I just...need a break from that.