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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-06-03 03:21 pm

[ SECRET POST #3804 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3804 ⌋

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[Twin Peaks]


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[Chris Pratt]


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[Banlieue 13/District B13]


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[American Gods]


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[Stephen Fry]


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[Miraculous: Tales of Ladybug and Cat Noir]











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(Anonymous) 2017-06-04 04:34 am (UTC)(link)
Many varying instances.

I used to be friends with a radfem who blatantly talked about coercing and bullying women into sex, but when I called her out on how rapey that was, her and all her radfem friends jumped on me like I was the asshole.

I've seen women and men realize that they were abused by women after denying for a long time because, culturally, women aren't considered domestic abusers.

I've seen abusive behavior ignored or laughed about because it was done by a woman.

Pretty much all discussion of abuse, domestic violence in particular, is biased towards men beating women. And abuse caused by women is considered fringe or not as bad.

The last radfem friend I had ended up becoming a TERF. The final straw with our friendship was when she posted some bullshit about the reason why there's been a statistical increase in violence by women in recent years, isn't because people are becoming more educated about things like gender and abuse and therefore more willing to call out behavior that would have otherwise been overlooked, but because of all the transwomen coming out nowadays. Cause men are just inherently violent and women could NEVER do anything wrong.

It's bizarre, it's almost like they think women are too weak and docile and helpless to be abusive.

Anyway, my brain has been fucked for a few days now so I can't think of any other examples.

(Anonymous) 2017-06-04 11:39 am (UTC)(link)
NAYRT
It pisses me off as well when they go the "If WOMEN ruled the world, everything would be a peaceful, charming wonderland without injustice, violence or corruption" and... seriously? Marine Le Pen, Margaret Thatcher and a whole lot of other female politicians would like to differ, I think.

(Anonymous) 2017-06-04 10:01 pm (UTC)(link)
SA

Yeah, honestly when people talk like that I feel like they're unintentionally degrading women. Like women are too docile or naive or simple to ever be conniving and power-hungry.

Women are just as capable of evil and wrongdoing as men are (I should know, I spent years as a non-violent criminal and got away with it I think largely because women are stereotyped to be law-abiding). I think women are just socialized in ways where that negative potential often takes a different form to how it does with men.

(Anonymous) 2017-06-04 10:40 pm (UTC)(link)
Fully agreed!