[ SECRET POST #3808 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3808 ⌋

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[http://sarahcandersen.com/post/96540470653]


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Comments

Re: unpopular opinions

[(Anonymous)]

I both agree and disagree with you. If someone is only having sex because their partner wants to and they might enjoy it on a purely physical level, but they wouldn't do it if they didn't have the partner that wanted to, then I think they can still count as asexual.

But the people (and I've actually seen several of them) who say they really enjoy sex, actively seek it out, and wouldn't want a relationship without sex but who somehow still identify as asexual...yeah, that's bullshit.

Re: unpopular opinions

[(Anonymous)]

That was the point I was driving home, yeah. For some asexuals, engaging in sex is the equivalent of going to a movie you don't particularly want to see-- your partner enjoys it, it makes them happy, you enjoy making them happy, it doesn't actively hurt you, ergo it's a thing that can be done.

Yeah, that is definitely bullshit, though, I completely agree.

Re: unpopular opinions

[(Anonymous)]

I don't agree with either. If you're enjoying sex on a "physical level" you are not asexual.

If you're having sex and it doesn't hurt, but you don't really feel anything either, then you're asexual.

Re: unpopular opinions

[(Anonymous)]

Maybe "enjoying it" isn't the right wording (although asexual doesn't mean "doesn't enjoy sex" so it doesn't rule out them enjoying it) but maybe...get physical pleasure out of it? A dark example, but like someone else somewhere in this thread mentioned, rape victims can still get aroused/orgasm even though they absolutely DO NOT WANT IT.