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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-06-11 03:44 pm

[ SECRET POST #3812 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3812 ⌋

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Re: Sad or stupid reasons you've parted ways with friends

(Anonymous) 2017-06-11 09:27 pm (UTC)(link)
My friend lives in a different city and has a lot of health problems. I used to call her regularly, until one day I realised that every time I'd spoken to her in the last three months she hadn't once asked me about my life or how I was, despite my going through a rough patch myself.

Rather than jump to conclusions, I decided to just go ahead and tell her what I'd been up to. She blanked me and changed the subject back to her.

After that, I decided I wanted nothing more to do with her. She doesn't seem to have noticed I've stopped making any effort, so apparently I made the right decision in dropping her.

Last time I saw her, she told me rather condescendingly that 'just because we haven't seen each other in a while, that she still considered me part of her inner circle'. Fuck that.

Re: Sad or stupid reasons you've parted ways with friends

(Anonymous) 2017-06-11 09:33 pm (UTC)(link)
You totally dodged a bullet there.
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Re: Sad or stupid reasons you've parted ways with friends

[personal profile] shortysc22 2017-06-11 09:36 pm (UTC)(link)
I always hate when it's all about them. Like I get it, your life is rough but just a quick "how are you" and letting you say your peace is enough.

Re: Sad or stupid reasons you've parted ways with friends

(Anonymous) 2017-06-11 09:43 pm (UTC)(link)
AYRT Yeah exactly. I didn't mind listening to her talk through her problems at all. But when it turned out she had zero interest in me and my welfare... *shrugs* Most of our conversations weren't even solely about her health, they'd also heavily concentrate on what she and her bf had been doing and her pet rats. Ah well.

Re: Sad or stupid reasons you've parted ways with friends

(Anonymous) 2017-06-11 11:01 pm (UTC)(link)
Some people aren't very good at asking other people how they are doing, perhaps a holdover from a childhood "Speak only when you are spoken to" rule, but if she wouldn't even listen to you when you brought it up, then yeah, not that great of a friend.
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Re: Sad or stupid reasons you've parted ways with friends

[personal profile] diet_poison 2017-06-12 01:14 am (UTC)(link)
Ick, that sucks. She definitely was not worth your time. :/