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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-06-11 03:44 pm

[ SECRET POST #3812 ]


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Re: Sad or stupid reasons you've parted ways with friends

(Anonymous) 2017-06-11 09:54 pm (UTC)(link)
I think people willing to do it without permission are willing to cross boundaries in other ways too.

I have literally never had anyone ask permission before giving me a nickname. I've had some people ask what I want to be called, but asking permission for a nickname is definitely not the norm.

You can have your beliefs of course, but I think you should be aware that you could be the odd one out so to speak, and expecting people to understand your reasoning and stance without explanation might be unreasonable, as well as immediately judging them for not having the same belief as you.
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Re: Sad or stupid reasons you've parted ways with friends

[personal profile] diet_poison 2017-06-12 12:57 am (UTC)(link)
idk maybe it's regional? cultural? I'm not used to nicknames just being randomly assigned, especially not by people you don't know well.

I don't know where you think judging came into it, though.