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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-06-12 06:39 pm

[ SECRET POST #3813 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3813 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Daredevil TV]


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[Wonder Woman (2017)]


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[Isabel Maru, Wonder Woman]


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[Sense8]


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[Schitt's Creekt]


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[Re:Creators]












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Re: Do straight people wear rainbow stuff/I have no gaydar, help

(Anonymous) 2017-06-13 05:06 am (UTC)(link)
Ayrt

Okay asshole, I wasn't going to respond to this, but an hour later I'm still livid. My wife is bi, I absolutely do not care that some women are straight, but they don't have a goddamned place wearing shit that literally says "I'm gay" and then get offended when someone... assumes they're into girls.

I love women (yes fucking including bi women), and I don't appreciate being compared to straight men just because I feel like straight women should take a little responsibility when it comes to the spaces they're entering and trying to commandeer. Realize that if you are essentially "advertising" as gay, people are probably going to assume you're gay!

Re: Do straight people wear rainbow stuff/I have no gaydar, help

(Anonymous) 2017-06-13 05:18 am (UTC)(link)
SA

Ugh, I already regret answering like this, it's no more mature of me. I just get really angry when people assume that because I AM a lesbian and I make no secret of it, that I must be one of "those" lesbians. The biphobic TERF-y type, I mean. I absolutely acknowledge that the stereotype exists for a reason, women like that absolutely do exist, but it's exhausting and hurtful to be put into that box just because I have issues with how straight people present themselves-- and, as of late, force themselves into queer spaces then get mad when it's assumed that they might be queer.

I love women, but by no means do I feel entitled to anyone. And I do resent that conflation. I am sorry about my tone, though.

Re: Do straight people wear rainbow stuff/I have no gaydar, help

(Anonymous) 2017-06-13 05:57 am (UTC)(link)
Apology accepted. My comment was out of line. I know most lesbians aren't "those" lesbians. I've known some who are and encountered more online, but not enough for it to be ok to assume I've met another one just from a comment like the one I replied to.