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⌈ Secret Post #3816 ⌋

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Re: Trends you don't understand

[(Anonymous)]

I like looking at a lot of wedding planning forums, and its the fucking norm for people o have 150 guests - that isn't even considered big by some people! I can't think of 150, or even 75 people I LIKE. Me and my partner are planning to have like... 40 people maybe.

Re: Trends you don't understand

[(Anonymous)]

My sister's wedding was nearly 400. lol

The groom was very involved in his church and several other clubs, my sister was very involved in a few schools (school-related work), both were basically local celebrities in my hometown within the arts and theater communities. Everyone, their mom, and their children, were invited.

Re: Trends you don't understand

[(Anonymous)]

I just can't imagine liking or wanting that. I'm super private. Like, I will probably be stressed out by the idea of being the center of attention of 40 people I know well. :P Being surrounded by people I don't know well and having to buy them all dinner basically... Not my thing.

Re: Trends you don't understand

[ketita]

It's very cultural, though, also. My sister had like 500 people at her wedding, because both sides have large extended families. But our weddings are less "presentations", I think. There's the ceremony itself, but otherwise a lot of it is people hanging out with each other and dancing with each other, it's not like you have to entertain them all the whole time.

Re: Trends you don't understand

[(Anonymous)]

Even if you don't have to entertain them all, that's still you professing your love for someone in front of half a grand of people as they all watch you knowing you're expected have sex that night. ...And buying them dinner. The idea of paying for guests food stresses me out too.

I also have a bad or non-existant relationship with all my extended family and don't want them there, so that is also something that makes huge weddings incomprehensible for me.

Re: Trends you don't understand

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One thing I don't get (as I get older) is the consummation on the night of -- historically, yeah maybe I get it, but honestly? I'd probably be so tired I'd want to jump my spouse's bones another day. Or maybe not. But yeah. As friends get married, I realize I have the thought pop up once.

Re: Trends you don't understand

[ketita]

I feel you. fwiw I'm more familiar with it from non-American cultures (though plenty of people who come from big wedding cultures choose to make small ones, for a variety of perfectly legitimate reasons!)

I guess I always loved weddings, from when I was little. It's so exciting, and I remember thinking how the bride would look like an angel, and always be really excited when I got any acknowledgement from her XD so I guess some of that happiness stuck with me.