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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-07-20 07:01 pm

[ SECRET POST #3851 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3851 ⌋

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Re: The lead singer of Linkin Park commited suicide.

(Anonymous) 2017-07-21 12:33 am (UTC)(link)
RIP :<

I just heard about it on dA after seeing a journal with some fuckshit in the comments going on about how they "can't feel sorry for them" because "suicide is the cowards way out" and now I'm sad AND pissed off.

Can these people like... keep this shit to themselves. I can't stand all these people who claim they've gone through similar things but can't feel empathy for people who couldn't handle it like they did. Is it that damn hard to just not comment?

Re: The lead singer of Linkin Park commited suicide.

(Anonymous) 2017-07-21 01:25 am (UTC)(link)
Ugh, agreed. Those kinds of comments annoy the shit out of me, too.

I don't get the "selfish" accusations. I've never been in the kind of headspace that somebody like Bennington, or any other person who's committed suicide, has been in, so I don't feel it's my place to judge them. My only reaction when I hear about somebody committing suicide is deep sadness, both for them and those they left behind.

I could understand family and friends going through a period of anger, perhaps, because grief is weird and anger would be a natural reaction to losing somebody they love. But complete strangers getting all judgy about this stuff...I don't get it.

Re: The lead singer of Linkin Park commited suicide.

(Anonymous) 2017-07-21 09:15 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, it is the coward's way out.

Re: The lead singer of Linkin Park commited suicide.

(Anonymous) 2017-07-23 04:22 am (UTC)(link)
I can assure you that "cowardly" is the last thing the majority of people who commit suicide are feeling.
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Re: The lead singer of Linkin Park commited suicide.

[personal profile] mimi_sardinia 2017-07-21 03:09 am (UTC)(link)
And the thing is, when I heard about it, it was on Phillip DeFranco, so I did get some of the reasons - Bennington had been abused as a kid and had depression problems. As sad as it is, I can understand with that history.

Frankly, I wonder why people who make that sort of comment don't immediately think "Did he have depression?".
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Re: The lead singer of Linkin Park commited suicide.

[personal profile] el_regrs 2017-07-21 03:33 am (UTC)(link)
Unfortunately, too many folks consider things like empathy to be what I call "transfer-only." You can't feel something for the deceased, because he left a wife and six kids behind and they need the empathy more than he does, therefore you shouldn't give any, no matter his reasons! As though feeling something for the deceased means that you're perfectly okay with people killing themselves.