[ SECRET POST #3877 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3877 ⌋

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[Justin Roiland & Dan Harmon]


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[Law & Order: SVU, Chicago Justice]


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[Pyre]


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[Gloria Burgle and Winnie Lopez, season 3 of Fargo]


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[@Midnight with Chris Hardwick]


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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

on my own end: i broke up with my gf a little while ago and she has since been making a massive spectacle of herself all over social media. it's a giant pity party, and if there isn't enough pity, she'll post ominous depressed messages.

the thing is: i do feel bad for her. the relationship was great for her! it was, however, extremely shitty for me for a lot of reasons, which is the realisation that broke the camel's back on my end. at least where my name is attached and mutual friends can see it (so, not here as of right now) i've taken the high road and not dragged her through the mud, but it's so frustrating knowing that people are turning away from me because of her ultimate victim showdown.

[(Anonymous)]

Sorry about your breakup I hope your friends will listen to your side of things.

You may wanna take a social media break if you can't avoid seeing it, looking at that stuff isn't going to help your headspace any even if you are good with the break up, dealing with the aftermath can still be hard.

[(Anonymous)]

thanks anon! i do try to keep away, and i have talked to some people about the way things played out for me (all of whom were very understanding).

my main concern is that it is starting to look like she is trying to paint me as some kind of terrible emotional abuser? and i kind of want to know if that's what's happening, so i can be vaguely prepared for some mutual friends to get very angry.

[(Anonymous)]

Taking the high road is rarely easy, but if it helps you feel any better... anyone who buys her melodramatic vaguebooking isn't a good friend OR a particularly intelligent person. Even if you don't feel particularly sympathetic, express sympathy for how tough she's taking it if people ask you, but stress that you're happier and healthier out of the relationship. You wish her well, etc. etc. but you need to move on, for your own mental and emotional well-being. That way, people who try to shame you for breaking up look like assholes.

If you can schedule some social time with good friends and clue them in on what REALLY happened. In the meantime, try to act normal on social media and wait it out.