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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-08-15 07:02 pm

[ SECRET POST #3877 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3877 ⌋

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[Justin Roiland & Dan Harmon]


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[Law & Order: SVU, Chicago Justice]


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[Pyre]


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[Gloria Burgle and Winnie Lopez, season 3 of Fargo]


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[@Midnight with Chris Hardwick]


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Re: Why aren't you in a relationship?

(Anonymous) 2017-08-16 07:20 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, two very simple reasons:
1) the last person I was interested in rejected me,
2) I rejected the last person who seemed interested in me.

Said rejection of me was a "like you, but not THAT way, sorry", % said
rejection of other was for being super super super intense and weird - things like looming in my personal space, yanking handshakes into hugs, asking sudden very personal questions at work, etc. (they no longer work with me, so thank goodness I didn't have to do more to reject them than just not keep in contact when they left).

As for a more general "why am I single" as I explain to my mother often enough: if there WERE someone that I met that I thought I could live with / would like to live with me, then I'd go for it. But the people I meet are in relationships, or the interest isn't mutual. I'm pretty happy with my life the way it is, though, so going further out of my way to meet people than through work, uni, and friends simply isn't worth the time and effort to me - so no, I don't use any meeting-people apps, or go to bars, or whatever people are doing now to efficiently meet people.