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⌈ Secret Post #3877 ⌋

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[Justin Roiland & Dan Harmon]

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[Law & Order: SVU, Chicago Justice]

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[Pyre]

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[Gloria Burgle and Winnie Lopez, season 3 of Fargo]

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[@Midnight with Chris Hardwick]

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Because they require mutual respect and I just don't have that for people.

Asexual and like my time being mine.

Kinda hard when you don't leave the house and have zero desire to put in the effort.

I like being alone and rarely spend time with people outside my immediate family.

I'm very neurotic, physically unattractive, and weird

in descending order of importance, I think

I don't have time for one now.

Currently don't want to be, and the current ritual of dating just doesn't interest me.

i'm "just broke up with my gf" anon from above lmao

but for the foreeable future, i'm going to stay single because it sucked that hard for me.

Because I'm too good for everyone else.

Because I haven't been looking, pretty much :p. I've just got too much other personal stuff I'm trying to sort out and focus on right now in terms of getting myself in a more stable place (mainly on the financial front), so I'm okay with holding off on getting into a relationship for the time being as a result.

I live in a hick town where the majority of the population is content staying where they are and I want to move as far away as possible, so options here are a firm "no."

I'm the ace anon from a week or so ago that was asking about ace/nerd-friendly dating sites. Well, I found some, but I am too shy to really do much with them (plus they all require irl photos and I hate taking pictures of myself). I'm trying to work up to it though.

So I guess my answers would be: too shy, too picky, 0% interest in sex

I have a lot of intimacy issues and have a hard time getting close to anyone.

I'm ace/aro.

Because I'm asexual and have enough on my plate right now with other life things.

And as well, because I'm finally admitting that I'm not the totally straight (if asexual) person that I thought I was.

I've had feelings for people of both genders, but could only admit to one for a really unfortunately long time. :/

And now I'm sort of having to accept that, if I ever have a long-term relationship, I'd want it to be with someone of the same gender as me--and never the opposite.

That's a big pill to swallow for me. I'm in my thirties. You'd think I'd have admitted this to myself sooner...

I already have two pets.

Fuck if I know.

Because I'm ugly, a weirdo and no one will ever like me.

Re: Why aren't you in a relationship?

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Autistic with little to no sex drive*. I'm very fine on my own, thank you very much.

* Won't say asexual, I used to feel desire when I was younger and probably had more active hormones or something.

You sound like my grandmother.

I value my independence and personal freedom. Other people see a loving relationship of give and take as a beautiful thing. I view it as a prison. I refuse to ask anyone for permission unless they're my mother, and her only because she's old and worries and I value her peace of mind. No one else will have that kind of emotional power over me. Ever.

Also, ace and maybe aro. That helps.

transman who can't transition so all the dicks I want don't want what I got

also finding that whatever emotional fulfillment my life requires is handled by a friend and some cats.

Issues galore, both mental and emotional, don't really get how to socialize, nevermind date, and average-shading to ugly, looks wise. Also for a long time my life in general was too much of a clusterfuck. That last might finally be changing though.

They keep wanting to get married and have kids.

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Self-loathing, which sounds weird when I say it.

Fear of responsibility, which is probably stupid.

Also, this weird sense that I have that I will believe different things in the future, and not to commit to someone that I will alienate.

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