[ SECRET POST #3885 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3885 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

My friends are getting married and I'm so happy for them and all the other ones in relationships. So happy!

But now there are only two of us who are single aaaand of course it's you and our friends have been dropping unsubtle hints since high school about us and they're back at it again.

I am a grown ass woman and I should know how to handle this but I don't.

Re: Vent thread

[el_regrs]

Hah, that conversation drops every few years around me. I've just learned to say "Thank you, but I'm not interested" or some variation. Which is true, though the reasons for my lack of interest may vary.

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

I can't really use that line. Our friends know it's a lie. It's a huge lie.
It's just never been a good time, and we are very comfortable in our weird basically married but also not even dating friendship. We like it. It's our thing.

Re: Vent thread

[el_regrs]

Ah. Well, nothing wrong with whatever you've got going with your sort-of-buddy, sort-of-lover either.

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

"I know you mean well, but I don't like it when you drop hints about this. I don't find it cute or funny. Please let's change the subject."

"You're making me really uncomfortable. Please stop." [followed by obvious subject change]

"Remember when I told you I didn't want to talk about this?"

"I told you I don't like it when you drop hints. Why do you keep doing this?"


Feel free to use a lot of awkward silences and freezing glares at people who are repeat offenders. Leave the conversation/room if they won't knock it off.

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

Thank you!

I'm bad at being confrontational but I will try these.