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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-08-23 07:09 pm

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Vent thread

(Anonymous) 2017-08-23 11:27 pm (UTC)(link)

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(Anonymous) 2017-08-23 11:30 pm (UTC)(link)
Here's a nice one:
https://www.pinterest.com/pin/407998047463606038/

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(Anonymous) 2017-08-24 12:02 am (UTC)(link)
womp wommmmmmmmmmp

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(Anonymous) 2017-08-23 11:32 pm (UTC)(link)
I started a new position in a job and it's very stressful with little hope of improving. I don't have the credentials for a better one yet. I'll quit at the end of the year since they'll have more time to find someone.

I wish I didn't spill spaghetti everytime I have to interact with someone.
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[personal profile] philstar22 2017-08-23 11:35 pm (UTC)(link)
The job I really wanted has already been filled. So why was the position up on your website then? Argh.

I'm just a complete wreck right now. Sinus infection and sore throat, mental health issues, insomnia, just everything feels bad right now and I feel like I'm in a hole I can't get out of.
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[personal profile] syncing_feeling 2017-08-24 12:31 am (UTC)(link)
That sucks, I'm sorry. Employers who don't keep up-to-date with their vacancy information are the worst. On the bright side, if they can't even manage that, you're probably better off without them anyway.

I'm sorry you're having a shitty time. :( If you ever need to unwind or just vent please feel free to PM me. x

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[personal profile] rosehiptea 2017-08-24 12:49 am (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry to hear that. I can relate. I hope you feel better soon.

(And yeah, they should update their damn website.)

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[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2017-08-23 11:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Ugh, everything is awful but I don't really want to talk about it.
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[personal profile] philstar22 2017-08-24 01:42 am (UTC)(link)
:hugs: I'm sorry. I hope things get better and something makes you smile tonight.
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[personal profile] syncing_feeling 2017-08-24 02:02 am (UTC)(link)
Cuddles. I'm here if you need a chat. x

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(Anonymous) 2017-08-23 11:42 pm (UTC)(link)
My mother gave me a "Well you should be thankful for your stomach issues because you cousin has migraines and all these other health issues etc," talk the other day and it was a bit irritating.

One, my stomach issues may seem minor to her but they caused me to not eat and lose a bunch of weight. I'm now only able to eat with medication and even then I can't eat much.

And two, telling me someone is sicker then I am does not make me feel better about my own situation. It makes me feel bad for my cousin and then just tends to make me kind of hate life in general. It never makes me happy by comparison, I think it's shit when people try to tell me to be thankful because someone else has it worse.
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[personal profile] sadiesockmonkey 2017-08-23 11:47 pm (UTC)(link)
:(

I'm sorry, anon. Hugs if you want them.

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[personal profile] el_regrs 2017-08-24 12:28 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah. It's not like compassion is in short supply, or that it's against the law to give more than one person a sympathetic word. I honestly want to bop people like that on the head sometimes. Nobody gets to tell you how you feel about your situation; you're the one going it through it and no one else.
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[personal profile] syncing_feeling 2017-08-24 12:36 am (UTC)(link)
The whole "it could be way worse" thing really doesn't help. Everyone's lives and circumstances are different and what may seem minor to some can have a huge impact on someone else. I'm sorry to hear you're not well, anon. My brother's had IBS for years and has recently been in hospital and diagnosed with ulcerative colitis. Stomach/bowel problems suck so bad because they have such an effect on everything else you do. :( Please hang in there and PM me if you need to vent or anything.

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(Anonymous) 2017-08-24 01:00 am (UTC)(link)
"Be GLAD you have a sprained ankle! Someone out there has a broken leg!" Well gee golly gosh, that's all fine and dandy but them having a broken leg doesn't make my ankle feel better. How about, "both of those things suck, and one sucking harder doesn't mean the other is FUN." Why is that so incredibly difficult for some people to understand.

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[personal profile] morieris 2017-08-23 11:44 pm (UTC)(link)
For an "in demand degree", it sure hasn't helped me much.

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(Anonymous) 2017-08-23 11:44 pm (UTC)(link)
I am so sick of air conditioning this time of year. I can't dress warm because it's hot out, but I step into a building and freeze.

In before layer up: I do. Doesn't help.

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(Anonymous) 2017-08-24 12:14 am (UTC)(link)
I had really spicy chicken korma at lunch today when I don't usually eat spicy food and my stomach is making me want to die now. Uuuuuuuugh.

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(Anonymous) 2017-08-24 12:22 am (UTC)(link)
My friends are getting married and I'm so happy for them and all the other ones in relationships. So happy!

But now there are only two of us who are single aaaand of course it's you and our friends have been dropping unsubtle hints since high school about us and they're back at it again.

I am a grown ass woman and I should know how to handle this but I don't.

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(Anonymous) 2017-08-24 12:37 am (UTC)(link)
I think my best friend and I are going to break up soon. We've been having a lot of petty arguments and it seems like I'm more unhappy after we spend time together. I think a lot of it is my fault, but some of it is theirs. But we're both stubborn and have fragile egos so I feel like instead of addressing the issue like adults we're just going to ride this train until it crashes in a fiery blaze. I don't want to make any hasty decisions either, though - maybe all we need is space.

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[personal profile] rosehiptea 2017-08-24 12:45 am (UTC)(link)
This week has sucked for me in a myriad of ways, both at work and at home. I feel like I'm failing at life. I'm just trying to make managing to go to work my main priority because if I fail at budgeting or dieting or cleaning at home I can make up for it but I obviously need my job.

(I think most of this is depression, but usually when I'm depressed there's some kind of event or thought that triggers it, and this is more like my brain saying "Hey, things seem pretty OK so how about I get really depressed?")

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(Anonymous) 2017-08-24 12:53 am (UTC)(link)
I need to get off the fucking couch and start cooking dinner but I don't wanna
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[personal profile] dani_phantasma 2017-08-24 01:47 am (UTC)(link)
I didn't make it to live certification. The programs I had to use for the job were glitchy and always freezing up. And frankly the things you got counted off for were ridiculous. While i was rebooting my system because the dumbass program froze, the customer and I made small talk about not liking hold music and finding it annoying. And the person scoring my call marked me for suggesting that the companys hold music could be annoying. And if your programs and computer are slow you can only say "oh the storm is making the system slow" because if you suggest the system is slow by itself, that's blaming the company. 9.9

The whole setup was a pain and I'm almost relieved I don't have to worry about that anymore because dealing with that everyday, holy shit the thought makes me wanna curl up and die.

On the bright side I had an interview today with an art shop and that's my last hope for staying here. Otherwise its back to Colorado with the folks. Meh I'll survive I guess. Mom and Dad both work and my sis is in high school so I'll have plenty of time alone with just me and Tucker (my mom's dog.) And their basement is pretty sweet.

All in all BLUUUH. Here have cute bunnies.

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[personal profile] tabaqui 2017-08-24 02:22 am (UTC)(link)
I just left my daughter at an inpatient clinic because she said she 'wished she were dead', and she was crying because she hadn't had a chance to talk to her dad and she was scared about being alone all night and my daughter was crying and i couldn't *fix it*.

She needs to be there and talk, she might be home in a day or two or four. But she was fucking crying and it sucks.

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(Anonymous) 2017-08-24 03:27 am (UTC)(link)
I don't know what to think. My SIL has usually been very friendly and talkative in person and I think we get along well? But last weekend she made a big fuss on Facebook about celebrating her dog's birthday and I realized that never once has she wished me happy birthday. I always remember her birthday with well wishes and/or a card. I feel... not angry, but kind of sad and embarrassed that I went through the trouble for someone who obviously doesn't care? Family stuff, man.

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