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⌈ Secret Post #3885 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

I think my best friend and I are going to break up soon. We've been having a lot of petty arguments and it seems like I'm more unhappy after we spend time together. I think a lot of it is my fault, but some of it is theirs. But we're both stubborn and have fragile egos so I feel like instead of addressing the issue like adults we're just going to ride this train until it crashes in a fiery blaze. I don't want to make any hasty decisions either, though - maybe all we need is space.

Re: Vent thread

[syncing_feeling]

Space sounds like a good idea, anon. I fell out with my best friend in my college days (we were both really stubborn too and each thought we were in the right), and it all seems super petty now, but it didn't seem like it back then. We never spoke after until she got in touch recently (after a few years) and basically said "right, that was a really stupid reason to fall out, friends again?"

But yeah, if you don't feel like either of you are going to be able to address the issue, then a bit of breathing space might be good for both of you. I hope it works out, anon. Falling out with friends sucks.

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

Sometimes time and space will take care of it-- one way or another! Either things will calm down and you'll grow close again, realizing it wasn't that important, or the friendship will sort of gradually drift into a "let's do lunch" or end quietly and (hopefully) gracefully.

Sometimes things can be sorted out with confrontation. Sometimes it's best to step back and disengage a bit. Hopefully you'll figure out which works best here.