[ SECRET POST #3888 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3888 ⌋

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Comments

Re: You're not special OP

[(Anonymous)]

Like, when did something this basic become a controversial opinion in fandom?

When people stopped "Your kink is not my kink, and that's okay" and started "You terrible, horrible, person! If you don't only fantasize about kittens and rainbows you should kill yourself!"

You know who I've discussed what I write about with? My licensed therapist. I use it as a tool to deal with past trauma (which does include being raped and suffering sexual abuse as a child). Some people journal, some people keep a diary, I deal with things through writing fiction.

I'm going to take my therapist's opinion over your "educated, non-fandom" friends any day of the week.

Re: You're not special OP

[(Anonymous)]

That's funny. One of the educated, non-fandom friends I mentioned is a therapist.

Da

[(Anonymous)]

For fuck's sake , are you SERIOUSLY speaking over a CSA victim with "well I have a therapist friend who agrees with ME"?

Fuck off.

Re: Da

[(Anonymous)]

DA, but whole crap, you need to get your head on straight and realize that our various traumas don't dictate who we can and can't discuss a matter with. What kind of fucked up world are you advocating for?

Re: You're not special OP

[(Anonymous)]

Not gonna lie, I laughed.

Also, as a CSA myself, I'm glad your comment didnt get into ayrts personal experience. It's an awful thing to have experienced, but it's also not some kind of definitive end to a debat. Nor should it be.

Re: You're not special OP

[(Anonymous)]

Ha, thanks anon! Honestly, I've had some experiences myself. I just prefer not to bring them up when I'm arguing about this topic, because someone's experiences - including my own - don't determine my stance on this whole thing. Like, it doesn't even factor in. I'm not more right because I've experienced abuse myself, and someone who opposes me isn't more wrong because they haven't, you know? I've seen tons of CSA survivors on both sides of this, and it's never their personal experience that affects how I view their argument. :)