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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-08-31 06:49 pm

[ SECRET POST #3893 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3893 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Valkyrie]


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[Joss Whedon and ex-wife Kai Cole]


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[Alyson Hannigan, "Fool Us"]


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[Wolfenstein: The New Order]


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[Anne, the new Anne of Green Gables reboot miniseries]













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(Anonymous) 2017-08-31 11:14 pm (UTC)(link)
The way he describes the women on his set is so cringey. Yuck...

Couldn't Joss just admit to being poly and talk about his feelings honestly with his wife?

(Anonymous) 2017-08-31 11:19 pm (UTC)(link)
That's not "being poly", that's just your run of the mill middle-aged married dude who wants to bang younger women and cheats on his wife to do it.

(Anonymous) 2017-08-31 11:20 pm (UTC)(link)
Being poly requires being ethical about it cheating is not "being poly".

(Anonymous) 2017-08-31 11:36 pm (UTC)(link)
I mean, no? You can be poly and still be a cheating asshole.

(Anonymous) 2017-09-01 01:06 am (UTC)(link)
+1 God people are so black and white about this entire thing.

(Anonymous) 2017-09-01 03:37 am (UTC)(link)
DA. Yep. This as oh boy it has been my father. He did tell his both girlfriends about that and was out and open but not so much about being a financial scam artist and a crap father.

(Anonymous) 2017-09-01 01:38 am (UTC)(link)
Well duh, that's why I said what I said. If he'd just been honest about wanting an open relationship so he could sleep around then maybe they could have worked something out.

(Anonymous) 2017-09-01 01:29 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah... none of this indicates he's poly. It just indicates he cheated. Most people are capable of being sexually attracted to multiple people at a time, including while in a relationship what's supposed to be exclusive, and that isn't what being poly is.

In any case, being honest with her about it wouldn't have obligated her to like it.

(Anonymous) 2017-09-01 01:40 am (UTC)(link)
You're being needlessly obtuse. He wanted to sleep around and have emotional relationships with other people, I'm saying he should have been honest with his wife about it to start with. It didn't need to be a secret thing, and maybe they could have worked something out (or maybe not, i don't care).

(Anonymous) 2017-09-01 03:14 am (UTC)(link)
A lot of guys are totally cool with having multiple affairs themselves, but lose their shit completely when the woman dares to even look at another man.