[ SECRET POST #3893 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3893 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Valkyrie]


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[Joss Whedon and ex-wife Kai Cole]


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[Alyson Hannigan, "Fool Us"]


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[Wolfenstein: The New Order]


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[Anne, the new Anne of Green Gables reboot miniseries]













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Comments

Re: post controversial opinions about mudane things

[(Anonymous)]

humanity biologically isn't meant for monogamous relationships and holding that as the standard has ruined countless lives

i can't deny it's good strategy for the current economic model we're under however

Re: post controversial opinions about mudane things

[(Anonymous)]

Do you think monogamy fucks (pun not intended) with both sexes equally? A lot of men seem to think women want monogamous partners but men want as many as possible. I think people of both sexes are all over the map, myself. What would be your ideal societal setup? One night stands only for everybody, or what?

Re: post controversial opinions about mudane things

[(Anonymous)]

No, I think polygamy in its current state also has issues, but I think open relationships being more accepted would be better for society as a whole. Basically greatly deemphasis ~true love~ and the nuclear family as a concept and allow whatever results from that.

Re: post controversial opinions about mudane things

[(Anonymous)]

I wouldn't say de-emphasize true love, but change what we see it as because nothing ever really said you only ever had one true love only once.

Re: post controversial opinions about mudane things

[(Anonymous)]

Really? So everyone in a happy monogamous relationship is lying to themselves?

Re: post controversial opinions about mudane things

[(Anonymous)]

obviously, did you not read my post?

Re: post controversial opinions about mudane things

[(Anonymous)]

but really, you're misrepresenting my post. i'm not saying that it can't work. what i am saying is that it doesn't work all that great for the vast majority of people and keeps people in shitty relationships, especially kids.

Re: post controversial opinions about mudane things

[(Anonymous)]

The vast majority of people, really?

I agree it doesn't work for everyone. But you are presuming an awful lot about people's feelings, especially a large amount of people who would passionately disagree with you for calling their feelings and their commitment to one person somehow fake or unnatural.

Re: post controversial opinions about mudane things

[tabaqui]

I really have to agree. Perfect monogamy for twenty, thirty, fifty years is just...weird.

Re: post controversial opinions about mudane things

[(Anonymous)]

Why do you think it's held as the standard?

Re: post controversial opinions about mudane things

[(Anonymous)]

It works well for our current economic model and is supported and encouraged by some of the most prevalent religions. Consider that something like 20-30% of people in relationships cheat and 60% or more think about cheating. Societies based in village/tribes would have supported an open relationship model better.

Re: post controversial opinions about mudane things

[(Anonymous)]

Do you have information or statistics on historical or modern trial societies where open relationships were/are the norm?

Re: post controversial opinions about mudane things

[(Anonymous)]

I mean I read a Nat Geo article about a matriarchy that allows for open relationships once, but I'm mostly bullshitting with some polemics for good measure.

Re: post controversial opinions about mudane things

[(Anonymous)]

LOLLLL damn, nonny, props for honesty anyway.

Re: post controversial opinions about mudane things

[mimi_sardinia]

I think it is a good model for raising healthy children.