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Do you care about height in terms of a sexual partner or significant other?

Tallness is hot to me but shortness is not un-hot.

I would have said "I agree" about a week ago, but my boyfriend (who is my height) and I attended a wedding where I wore heels, and I've gotta say... being taller than him was fucking awesome. It was sexy in its own way, somehow. It was more of a feeling though, rather than a physical attribute.

He called me his Amazon lmao so now I feel like there is something hot about it.

Not especially.

It's not a huge deal.

I'm female and prefer guys close to my own height (while it seems like the expected preference is for taller guys), but if someone is either taller or shorter, it wouldn't bother me at all.

Yes and no, depends on the person

Having a defensive complex about it is almost always unattractive, and that goes for both unusually short or tall

No. Not even remotely.

I would say no, but I've never had a partner shorter than me, so idk. I do find tallness attractive though.

Nope. I appreciate a partner who's taller than me, but I'm only 5'2". It's just nice to have someone who can reach high shelves easily. I've dated guys who were barely taller than me, though. But if a short guy is bitter or has a terrible attitude (think red pillish) about it, that's highly unattractive.

I'm rather small. Only 5 feet actually! And most of my serious crushes have been on men over 6 feet tall!

I find shorter people more attractive. It's not the most important thing about a person, but it does affect what I find attractive (men and women both tbh). My height or shorter. I'm fairly average height for a woman. 5'7"

I don't think so, it's not something I've every really given much thought or noticed tbh.

Nah. It's nothing that bothers me either way. But I am only 5'4" so it's not hard to be taller than me. Maybe if I was taller it would bother me. My husband is 5'5" so... ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

It's not a deal breaker or anything, but I've found I'm not into guys who are significantly taller than me, but also not noticeably shorter than me. My height exactly is the right height for a man - I'm a 5'6" woman, so I guess that means I prefer guys on the shorter side? I could go up a few inches, so average-height guys aren't completely out of luck. I could also go an inch shorter.

A little. I prefer dating short people because it's easier to stuff like have my partner sit on my lap and hug them while we're watching a movie. But I've also dated taller people so it's not a deal breaker, it's just a preference.

Height isn't a dealbreaker for me either way, but I do prefer tall women in general, mostly because I myself am 4'11" and would like to have a tall partner so that they can get stuff off of shelves for me.

I wish I could say no, but...I guess I do. I would prefer a guy at least my height, if not taller, because I think I'd feel weird being with a guy shorter than me, but I don't think I would reject someone who was otherwise great because of height (or at least I hope not).

Nah, not really. Most of my celebrity crushes are tall, but that's probably because actors in general tend to be on the tall side. There are a lot more factors that are more important to me than height.

I prefer partners closer in height to me. I don't want someone super taller or shorter than me.

No, and I've never understood women who say they won't date a guy shorter than they are. There aren't many guys shorter than I am but I wouldn't let it stop me. But I once heard a woman say "It's like dating your little brother." No, no it isn't.

(I haven't dated in years and I'm mostly looking for women, but that's a whole other digression.)

I've never understood women who say they won't date a guy shorter than they are.

It's not like we choose to not be attracted to short guys. Some of us just aren't. It's not a value judgement. It's not like I'm sitting back thinking, "Short guys just aren't man enough," or whatever. I have a short male friend who's the most typically "manly" guy I know. Meanwhile, I like very tall, slender, pretty dudes - emphasis on very tall. That's just what I find physically attractive.

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You're not familiar with the concept of people having different tastes in what they find physically attractive? I doubt that, so I'm not sure where your trouble understanding comes in. You probably have traits you wouldn't like in a partner. Other people have them too, but maybe their standards aren't the same as yours. It's not rocket science.

Not attractiveness based really, but practically I can't see myself dating anyone taller than 6 feet cause I am under 5 ft and the logistics of that just sounds hard. My current gf is short (~5'3'') and I like it, cause the height difference isn't intimidating.

Not really. I guess I prefer guys my height or taller, but I've found plenty of shorter guys attractive, too. It's more about the proportions and their face, for me.

Tallness in a man is the number one thing I find attractive. What's most attractive to me is a man in the 6'4" or 6'5" range. Nngghh.

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