[ SECRET POST #3919 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3919 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[The Magnus Archives Podcast]


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[saiyuki reload blast]


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[Somali to Mori no Kami-sama]


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[Christopher from an old season of Project Runway]


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[Tusk]


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[David Tennant and Michael Sheen in Good Omens]













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Comments

Re: Pet peeves/rant thread

[(Anonymous)]

I'm tired of seeing the suffering of my adult friends who are abused by their family members, because people only care about abuse if it's extreme and physical or its children.

Who cares about those being gaslighted by their father or mother, being mocked by parents and step parents or being abused by siblings right?/s.

I'm sick of the fact that I feel anxious about finding therapists because my parents always eventually convinced them the problem was all me. or the therapists who said everything my parents liked to here.

The therapist that looked at me coming in CRYING and saying that I had a good thing with my parents and shouldn't move out.

Re: Pet peeves/rant thread

[(Anonymous)]

I'm sorry, nonny. You might find these helpful:


/r/RaisedByNarcissists
/r/JustNoFamily

Re: Pet peeves/rant thread

[(Anonymous)]

Thanks I know of the first one, but I'll be sure to give that second one a look. I've been far away from them for a good while now, though I still have the same fears.

Re: Pet peeves/rant thread

[(Anonymous)]

I'm sorry. Therapists who refuse to hear your story and feel its full weight are, if not seriously inexperienced, usually in some serious denial about their own upbringing. Emotional/psychological/verbal abuse is so easily swept under the rug because for some, it was "just a part of growing up" so it couldn't have been "that bad," and they project this attitude on anyone going through something similar. I wish we could cut that bullshit, words and deceit and conditional love hurt no matter who you are.

AYRT

[(Anonymous)]

That honestly sounds better than my more cynical theory, that they wanted to say what the people paying them wanted to say and me moving out meant one less payment.

What's sad is I've come to expect those responses when I chance posting about my experiences.

I wish that we could cut it too. I hate seeing people suffering.

Re: AYRT

[(Anonymous)]

I sort of agree with your theory, except I know that there are some therapists who are completely nucking futz, too.

Re: Pet peeves/rant thread

[greghousesgf]

I am so sorry you had such negative experiences with your therapists. I was lucky, most of mine helped me so much (I did have one or two who were asshats)