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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-10-17 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #3940 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3940 ⌋

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Re: SMH at rude people.

(Anonymous) 2017-10-18 03:39 am (UTC)(link)
That was the first time I commented in this thread lol

And I mean honestly, 'here's someone who's depressed and upset and lashing out' if people who were being like all U R LOVED AND VALUED AND STUFF actually meant that, those are exactly the sorts of people they should be reaching out to. How exactly does telling people that they're hostile help? How does talking down to people who don't think they deserve help or actually want it make them somehow see things differently? This entire thread and its responses is the best example of why these generalized feel-good-nonsense doesn't work.

Stop telling people to be grateful for platitudes they didn't ask for in the first place, and actually maybe try showing some empathy for a change.