case: ([ Ryohei; DINOSAURS. ])
Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2008-06-20 05:11 pm

[ SECRET POST #532 ]


⌈ Secret Post #532 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 00 secrets from Secret Submission Post #076.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 2 3 4 - not!secrets ], [ 1 2 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 1 - repeat ].
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Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: 124.

(Anonymous) 2008-06-20 10:21 pm (UTC)(link)
Rape victims who write non-con are just perpetuating the trauma. I don't see how it's a way to "cope". It's basically reliving the same experience over and over. I guess if they do that, it means they just can't get enough.

...What ever happened to simply relating with a rape victim character because of their experience and their struggle to overcome the trauma? When did reliving the terrible event via fic become a coping mechanism?

Re: 124.

(Anonymous) 2008-06-20 10:32 pm (UTC)(link)
So you're a psychologist now and are the absolute authority on how people should cope with any trauma in their lives?

Well thank you, doctor. I don't know what I would have done without you!

Re: 124.

[identity profile] gratuity.livejournal.com 2008-06-20 10:39 pm (UTC)(link)
I guess if they do that, it means they just can't get enough.

Um. What? I'm sorry, what?

...What ever happened to simply relating with a rape victim character because of their experience and their struggle to overcome the trauma? When did reliving the terrible event via fic become a coping mechanism?

I don't think there needs to be one right way to cope with trauma. It may not be healthy, but if it's not hurting anyone else, why do you care?

Re: 124.

(Anonymous) 2008-06-20 10:57 pm (UTC)(link)
BECAUSE OMG SHE WAS RAPED AND HOW CAN YOU SUPPORT SOMETHING SO HORRIBLE AND TERRIBLE AND LIFE CHANGING??!?!?!

which also means that she is in the god given approved position to be the authority on it as well.

Re: 124.

[identity profile] gratuity.livejournal.com 2008-06-20 11:00 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh wait, do I get this special approved position too then?




OSHI--

Re: 124.

(Anonymous) 2008-06-20 10:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Actually, I think it's similar to writing a deathfic to overcome a death. It's a way to put it behind you, and it actually does work (it worked for me, anyway) - so long as you don't end up stuck writing the same thing over and over to get rid of the feelings.
pikabot: (brooke has an afro)

Re: 124.

[personal profile] pikabot 2008-06-21 06:03 am (UTC)(link)
The OP of the secret seems like a decent person who misstated her position.

You're just an asshole.

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[identity profile] gratuity.livejournal.com 2008-06-21 05:07 pm (UTC)(link)
Not once in my original comment did I say the OP wasn't a decent person.
pikabot: (hiruma)

Re: 124.

[personal profile] pikabot 2008-06-21 05:41 pm (UTC)(link)
...I was talking to anon, not you.

Re: 124.

[identity profile] gratuity.livejournal.com 2008-06-21 05:53 pm (UTC)(link)


That's what I get for getting on LJ first thing when I wake up. My apologies for immediately being defensive.