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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-10-23 07:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #3946 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3946 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 38 secrets from Secret Submission Post #565.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2017-10-24 12:23 am (UTC)(link)
I know the feeling, and I've just entirely stopped making secrets. Someone would take what I meant the wrong way and then the entire chain would derail. When you're just wanting people to discuss X thing and the trolls notice/insert Y thing instead, it gets annoying.

It didn't help that I take things to heart and couldn't fully separate myself from the anonymous aspect of secret-making. They don't know who you are, and yet, it still hurts your feelings a bit. :c

(Anonymous) 2017-10-24 12:29 am (UTC)(link)
That's entirely your call, but I think if you (that's a general "you") submit secrets with the hope of controlling the discussion other people have, you're setting yourself up for a disappointment.

(Anonymous) 2017-10-24 12:33 am (UTC)(link)
I hope this isn't rude but - while we can run wild with secrets here sometimes, I also think there are times where the people who are making the secrets don't quite realize what they're actually saying?

Like... I kind of think sometimes our reactions might not actually be wrong? But it'll still annoy the secret makers?

(Anonymous) 2017-10-24 02:37 am (UTC)(link)
nayrt

+1. I don't know if it's the same anon or different anons, but I've seen this complaint before of "People really misinterpret my secrets" and I think, well... if this is happening to you on a regular basis, it might be time to consider the possibility that you're not expressing yourself very clearly. We all have misunderstandings from time to time, but it could be that people are picking up on something OP isn't aware of in their own text.