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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-11-06 06:29 pm

[ SECRET POST #3960 ]


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(Anonymous) 2017-11-07 09:03 am (UTC)(link)
But also there's a disconnect in my brain between like I wanna kiss them and I wanna have sex. Like there's levels there.

Another ace person here, and I can really relate to this. In my case, the disconnect is between a general feeling of "nngghh" and actually wanting to have any sort of sexual or romantic contact with them. It's a weird thing that I've always struggled to explain, even to myself - the way I can be, like, inertly attracted to a character but not actively attracted to them. Like I can feel all wibbly about them, but if I try to imagine kissing or having sex with them, my brain is like, "...Um, no? Why are you even thinking about this, self? There is no there, there."