[ SECRET POST #3965 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3965 ⌋

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Comments

Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?

[(Anonymous)]

I would like all comments about my boobs ever to stop.
It's not fine if you're giving me a compliment.
It's not fine if you're a woman and you think it's okay to compare sizes or ask questions because we are both women.

Stooooop.

Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?

[(Anonymous)]

Do you tell them you don't like those conversations? Because if you do and they continue, they're assholes.

I just never saw anything wrong if I was close to someone to have those kinds of conversations. I mean, I wouldn't go up to a stranger and be like, WOW NICE CLEAVAGE! even if I was thinking it.

Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?

[(Anonymous)]

I do shut them down straight away. It's usually not my friends because they all know I fucking hate it.

I mostly get this from people I've just met, especially when they have been drinking. Having bigger than average boobs on an otherwise small body, I get a lot of people, men and women, asking if they're real/can I touch/what size etc. Sometimes they don't say anything and just go in for a grope. Women are more likely to say uncomfortable things and compare their own body to mine. As soon as I step into a women's bathroom or I'm with a group of people and the men leave to smoke or whatever it's like petting time at the goddamn zoo. I also have my skin felt, my hair stroked, my waist grabbed at.

I am smaller than most and I was bullied physically by other girls when I was younger so I hate other people touching me. Women aren't "safe" to me. I don't feel comfortable around strangers without my physical boundaries being respected.

Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?

[(Anonymous)]

Where in the hell do you live? I have huge boobs on a small body and I've never experienced anything even remotely similar. At most I get the "oh my god your back must be KILLING you" comments, but never have any other women ever groped me or made super uncomfortable comments like that.

Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?

[(Anonymous)]

Hell is a good description. A very image conscious city right on the water. It's socially acceptable to point out that other people aren't tanned or thin enough to be seen in a bikini here. Big drinking culture. At least two people I know have been featured in Playboy, a few more are acting or performing full time.

If you have a problem with being groped, you're just not fun! You need to loosen up!
- seems to be the attitude of most people here.

Where do you live so I can move there?

Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?

[(Anonymous)]

North of you, if I have you pegged right. Formerly moderately-sized grunge city experiencing some major growing pains atm. Pretty much everyone here is friendly but has a massive personal bubble, lots of introverts and not a lot of worry about image.

Come on up, we don't have a ton of room but there's still places to go.

Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?

[greghousesgf]

some woman I didn't even know grabbed my tit and took off running really fast at a street Halloween party once. If my reflexes had been a bit better I would have clocked her.

Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?

[(Anonymous)]

Lol, that some weird shit.

Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?

[(Anonymous)]

AYRT

Omg. Not funny or cute just because you're a woman, random gropers!
I tend to freeze completely when people do this. When I get my voice back from the silent WHAAAAT moment I do speak up, but I haven't done anything badass.

For a second there I was imagining a super elastic boob because you said she grabbed it and took off running. Like she was still holding it and running. I need sleep.

Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?

[(Anonymous)]

Holy living fuck, people ask if they can touch your tits?!?! GodDAMN that makes me angry, and I'm sorry you have to deal with that complete and utter bullshit!

Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?

[(Anonymous)]

I hate that it's so normal to me now that I'm surprised there are people who haven't experienced this. I hope things will be better in the future for young women.