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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-11-17 07:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #3971 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3971 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

It’s spoilers and content warnings all the way down.




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01. [SPOILERS for Stranger Things Season 2]
https://i.imgur.com/jFSn4zu.png


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02. [SPOILERS for Great British Bake Off]



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03. [SPOILERS for Stranger Things]



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04. [SPOILERS for Stranger Things]



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05. [WARNING for discussion of sexual harassment]



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06. [WARNING for discussion of rape]



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07. [WARNING for discussion of sex abuse / sex rp / underage?]

















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 00 secrets from Secret Submission Post #568.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Maybe do talk to her

(Anonymous) 2017-11-18 07:17 am (UTC)(link)
Most people in fandom will not consider what you did abuse and the girl probably won't hold it against you, but it may be a good idea to get back in touch and acknowledge that you did something wrong and wouldn't do again. Don't ask her to forgive you, just tell her that you regret having done it. Make her feel acknowledged if she really was hurt, but don't put it on her to forgive you or send her a feelings dump about what a terrible person you are. That way it won't be weird even if she doesn't think you did anything wrong. Good luck!

No, this is VERY bad 'advice'

(Anonymous) 2017-11-18 07:27 am (UTC)(link)
It would probably freak the person out who is likely to have forgotten the whole thing. This whole fandom call out, apologise for everything other people say you might be vaguely guilty of is poison.

Re: No, this is VERY bad 'advice'

(Anonymous) 2017-11-18 02:30 pm (UTC)(link)
But this isn't other people telling OP to apologize, they want to make amends for something they feel they did wrong.
And like, there's no way for anything to do with fandom psychology to not be poisonous because obsessing over fake stories isn't really something that sane adults do. I personally prefer the anxious sjw guilt to a forty year old yelling at literal children for judging her incest fetish on Tumblr or writing treatises about how your dead baby fisting rp is transgressive art being oppressed by the new Puritans.
It's all pathetic, but some shit is just more palatable.