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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-11-24 05:55 pm

[ SECRET POST #3978 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3978 ⌋

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[personal profile] cbrachyrhynchos 2017-11-25 03:08 pm (UTC)(link)
There's this cultural thing among some gay and bi men of being generally grabby or asking to touch women because they're "curious." I think its partly a territorial club/party thing and about making people who are not touchy-feely gay/bi men uncomfortable.

I was groped as a pre-teen by a boy who probably was straight, (I don't know because we've not been in contact.) And it was totally about him being a bully and doing something he knew would make me uncomfortable and I wouldn't talk about out of embarrassment. (You didn't talk about bullying in the 1980s. Or you did but it was like screaming into the void. And you especially didn't complain about anything that could get you labeled "gay" in the 1980s, although I was labeled gay anyway.)

FYI: Sexual harassment as defined by American civil rights law is a form of sex discrimination which creates a hostile environment for women. It's not at all defined on the harasser's ability to get off on it.
Edited 2017-11-25 15:14 (UTC)