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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-12-14 05:36 pm

[ SECRET POST #3998 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3998 ⌋

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Re: Is there anyone else who's over 25 and still is unsure of their sexuality?

(Anonymous) 2017-12-15 01:59 am (UTC)(link)
The only thing I know is I'm not straight. I'm turning 30 in a month, and I've only ever been in one relationship (and never had sex) and it lasted 3ish months, and I kind of started ghosting when he started inviting me to sleep over. And when he tried to get back with me a year after we split, I told him no in pretty clear terms.

Hell, ex and I only met because I created an online dating profile for a week to see if men were still jerks and only sent me dickish messages, and on the last day before I was gonna delete the profile he messaged me and we struck up a good dialogue.

I always cringed at the idea of marriage and was like well outspoken against marriage in sociology and psychology classes in high school. I kinda acknowledged in my early 20s I might like women, but I've really started seeing my future with a woman in the last 6 months or so.

I do wonder how much internalized homophobia and my own parents outspoken homophobia has affected me to the point that I'm kinda afraid to date.