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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-12-14 05:36 pm

[ SECRET POST #3998 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3998 ⌋

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Re: Is there anyone else who's over 25 and still is unsure of their sexuality?

(Anonymous) 2017-12-15 05:03 am (UTC)(link)
Well, I honestly don't think it's about "figuring out your sexuality". I don't think there's a secret real concrete answer buried inside of you. Sexuality is just.. you. It can be fluid, and opportunities, experiences, and certain situations might reset the course, so to speak. You should just live in the moment. If it feels right, go for it. If you aren't having fun, don't pursue it.

I'm pretty much a lesbian with the rare occasional exception, and I'm honestly to the point of just hating labels. They aren't useful for me anymore. They were probably useful when I was first realizing I liked women, ten years ago. I've outgrown them since. I think we need to worry less about what we call ourselves, and focus more on the fact that it's okay if you date women, it's okay if you date men, and it's okay if you're not into relationships or sex.