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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-12-14 05:36 pm

[ SECRET POST #3998 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3998 ⌋

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Re: Is there anyone else who's over 25 and still is unsure of their sexuality?

(Anonymous) 2017-12-15 09:31 pm (UTC)(link)
I sometimes wonder about the motivations behind the focus on defining specific, rigid categories and insisting people figure out where they fit. I've sensed this undercurrent of "If everyone would just be very clear about how they identify and what they like, then no one ever has to feel awkward or rejected" but that's just not how relationships work. That's not even how hook-ups work.

thanks for this. articulates part of why romantic/grey orientations make no sense to me, even though I often see that people with similar experiences to mine find them useful.