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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-12-20 06:39 pm

[ SECRET POST #4004 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4004 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Hey Say JUMP]


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[Jeff Goldblum]


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[Criminal Minds]


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[Fullmetal Alchemist the movie]


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[Parks and Rec]


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[Brick]












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Re: Just sad cat stuff..

(Anonymous) 2017-12-21 12:48 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, god, that sucks :(. I know exactly what you're going through-I went through that with my own cat last year. Your comment about feeling like you haven't had enough time especially hit home.

And don't feel bad about mourning, either. Even with time to prepare, that doesn't make this sort of situation any easier. Cry and grieve all you want to.

He sounds like he's got a lot of love from you and your family, though, so I've no doubt you'll do what you can to make his last days a little easier, and make good memories worth enjoying and cherishing. Condolences and hugs to you and your family and cat.
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Re: Just sad cat stuff..

[personal profile] philstar22 2017-12-21 01:07 am (UTC)(link)
This. It is okay to mourn pets. They are family members. We love them. Preparation doesn't make it any better. It still hurts.
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Re: Just sad cat stuff..

[personal profile] syncing_feeling 2017-12-21 01:14 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you. :( I'm sorry you had to go through that, too. It just feels so unfair. I know that no amount of time ever feels like enough when it comes to pets. I could spend 20 more years with this little guy happily. He's just such a ray of sunshine.

We're talking to the vets later this week about how to tell if/when it's getting close to that time. I can't bear the idea of him suffering so I want to know exactly what signs to look out for so he can go peacefully.

Thank you so much for your kind words. Me and my partner will do everything we can to make his remaining time full of cuddles and treats. He's clambering into my lap right now actually. :) Will give him a big hug from you. <3

Re: Just sad cat stuff..

(Anonymous) 2017-12-21 04:39 am (UTC)(link)
It's a good thing to know what you're looking out for. Deciding ahead of time that I wasn't going to leave my geriatric cat overnight at the vet's meant that I had a clear line that I could draw.