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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-12-31 03:11 pm

[ SECRET POST #4015 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4015 ⌋

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Re: Based on #1

(Anonymous) 2017-12-31 11:21 pm (UTC)(link)
I had one in junior high and high school, another one in college, and sort of had a third one going in grad school. I haven't managed to get one going in my post-grad school adult life, though.

It can be tough when you don't live where you grew up or went to school, so you can't just continue with your existing friend groups. Meanwhile, a lot of people around you did stay and still have their friend group and may not be that enthusiastic about making new close friends (not because they don't want friends but because they aren't as desperate). Being single can also be an issue since some coupled people can get weird about making new single friends because they want to do stuff as a couple with other couples, and that cuts down on the options in what is already a tight friend market. (I find that's mostly only true among younger folks and newer couples, though. People who've been together longer or were older when they got together seem less likely to behave like that.)