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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-01-03 06:33 pm

[ SECRET POST #4018 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4018 ⌋

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Re: What phrase or saying do you find really cringy?

(Anonymous) 2018-01-04 01:42 am (UTC)(link)
"You have to forgive/reunite/say 'I love you' because that person will die one day and you'd regret it!" Um, no. I will do what I consider is best for me and my sanity.

"Oh he/she is so beautiful/handsome" and more over-the-top, well-meaning garbage about a facially disfigured person. I get you don't want to be mean, but this is not helpful either.

"Well, why didn't you tell someone/go to the police/say something sooner?!" If you have to ask... you're part of the problem. Also "It's your responsibility to make sure there aren't more victims like you!" I'm all for doing everything one can to lock up a criminal, but putting all of that on someone in a fragile state is kind of a shitty thing to do.

Re: What phrase or saying do you find really cringy?

(Anonymous) 2018-01-04 02:13 am (UTC)(link)
Branching off of #2, "She has such a pretty FACE" when you're talking about an overweight person. I get it can mean well and may even feel honest, but feels more like a pity compliment or something said to bring attention to the fact that the rest of the person ISN'T pretty.
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Re: What phrase or saying do you find really cringy?

[personal profile] greghousesgf 2018-01-04 02:32 pm (UTC)(link)
I have the opposite problem. I lost over 100 pounds but I still have a face that could fucking crack glass.

Re: What phrase or saying do you find really cringy?

(Anonymous) 2018-01-04 08:30 pm (UTC)(link)
You talk about this a lot and it seems to bother you to the point of interfering with your day-to-day life. Have you considered cosmetic surgery?
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Re: What phrase or saying do you find really cringy?

[personal profile] greghousesgf 2018-01-04 08:34 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't have the money. Plus I used to work in a doctor's office and I knew a couple of plastic surgeons and if you have facial surgery you're supposed to have one specific thing (example, nose, eyelids)changed. I'd have to change my whole face.