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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-01-20 03:32 pm

[ SECRET POST #4035 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4035 ⌋

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Re: Co-Dependent Friendships?

(Anonymous) 2018-01-20 09:54 pm (UTC)(link)
I relied too much on a friend during a highschool when I was severely depressed which in turn destroyed the relationship. Now I'm too afraid to get too close with to anyone because I don't want to force my feels on them and have difficulty telling when I'm being annoying.
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Re: Co-Dependent Friendships?

[personal profile] rosehiptea 2018-01-20 10:38 pm (UTC)(link)
I have the same problem, only I did it more than once and well past high school. I think I have improved significantly but now I'm at the age where it's really hard to make new friends.

Re: Co-Dependent Friendships?

(Anonymous) 2018-01-21 01:50 am (UTC)(link)
If your friend avoided you when you were severely depressed then they were not a true friend in the first place.

Re: Co-Dependent Friendships?

(Anonymous) 2018-01-21 02:18 am (UTC)(link)
But that's not what AYRT said? They said they were too dependent, not that their friend avoided them.

It's possibly the over-dependency pushed the friend away. Not everyone can deal with someone being hyper clingy, regardless of the reasons for it.