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⌈ Secret Post #4041 ⌋

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[It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia; linked for illustrated? nudity / OP warned for NSFW]

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10. [repeat]

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11. [SPOILER for Stranger Things, season 2]

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12. [WARNING for discussion of sexual assault]

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13. [WARNING for discussion of sexual assault]

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I think most people agree that rape and sexual assault are bad. Most will even agree that sustained or egregious sexual harassment is bad. But after that point, everyone is all over the map with what constitutes wrongdoing and how bad any wrongdoing is. Pressuring is not cool, but when does it turn from persuasion to pressure? Coercion is bad, but when does urging become coercion? Can someone always tell when someone else is intimidated or feels threatened? Some people are terrible at non-verbal communication (hell, a lot are terrible at verbal communication), but does that let them off the hook? There are a lot of good conversations that could come out of this, but I don't think they will. Too many people are too intent on a right-and-wrong, black-and-white narrative here, when really this is where there needs to be discussion and clarification.

Considering some people think if one part of a couple has sex when they don't really feel like it but their partner does is rape, this really isn't that surprising.

why are we erecting strawmen? what's the use of that?

Tumblr has the weirdest ideas about consent. "If you've ever had sex when you weren't 125% thrilled to do it just to make your partner happy, you've been RAPED!" Or, you know, you've been in a sexual relationship that lasted more than six months.

Have these people never had a long-term relationship?

Most of them haven't lived long enough to have an actual long-term relationship.

That's a valid point. I said a lot of stupid shit when I was a teenager. I'm glad the internet wasn't around back then so there's no record of it.

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