[ SECRET POST #4041 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4041 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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03. https://i.imgur.com/MPdttxe.png
[It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia; linked for illustrated? nudity / OP warned for NSFW]


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11. [SPOILER for Stranger Things, season 2]



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12. [WARNING for discussion of sexual assault]



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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 00 secrets from Secret Submission Post #578.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[(Anonymous)]

As a woman, let me share some astonishing news: allowing a guy to eat you out is in fact a pretty strong indicator you may be interested in having intercourse with him.

[(Anonymous)]

getting eaten out still isn't the same as consenting to sex

[(Anonymous)]

god i fucking hate this entire generation

[(Anonymous)]

IDK, I think a person who expects someone to do them sexual favors, but doesn't want to reciprocate, is a pretty shitty person.

[(Anonymous)]

Getting eaten out is already a sexual act you dimwit. She already consented. She could have and ultimately did withdraw her consent and he actually backed off. But once she consented to get her damn pussy eaten, with no additional cues, yes, most people, male or female, would take this as a consent for additional sexual intercourse.

[cbrachyrhynchos]

Eeeg, no. It's always good to check in after a specific sex act. For one thing, one sex act may tip the balance from Mr/Ms Right Now to Mr/Ms Let's Try Again Next Week or Mr/Ms Ooops You're Not My Type. And for another thing that should open a conversation about what, and how, and what kinds of protection you want. Not everyone is going to be down for fucking right now, not everyone is going to be down for fucking period. That could be giver and receiver BTW.

[(Anonymous)]

Yes but the whole point is that the communication in this case sucked on BOTH sides.
And when one party notices that the communication sucks, it's their own responsibility to change that themselves and not sit and wait if maybe the other person, who could easily just be too thick or self-absorbed to notice, might possibly maybe pick up on it after all.

[cbrachyrhynchos]

Sure, communication sucks in this story. But some of the arguments being thrown around are just plain bullshit. No, going up to someone's apartment isn't carte blanche consent for sex on the first date. No, letting someone go down on you isn't consent for anything else. My read is that the anonymous woman was giving off multiple slow down signals. When that happens, the smart thing to do is sit down with tea or a beer and talk it out.

[thewakokid]

No, going up to someone's apartment isn't carte blanche consent for sex...letting someone go down on you isn't consent for anything else

Of course it's not, but what it IS is a nonverbal cue that maybe you might be down for sex. If that positive non-verbal cue is not countered with equally strong negative non-verbal cues to stop then there's no winning here.

[cbrachyrhynchos]

Gods that sounds both joyless and artless to treat intercourse as a foregone conclusion and skip the exploration. Half the time people don't really know what they want for desert before sampling the appetizers.

And y'all stereotype queers as lacking in romance. Some of my best dates ended with talking about scifi and making out on the couch.

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah but both people in this case were everything other than smart.

[(Anonymous)]

Um, no? You still need to ask. Good god.