[ SECRET POST #4041 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4041 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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03. https://i.imgur.com/MPdttxe.png
[It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia; linked for illustrated? nudity / OP warned for NSFW]


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11. [SPOILER for Stranger Things, season 2]



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12. [WARNING for discussion of sexual assault]



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Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

I was with you in the first paragraph, but then it started turning into a rant about how much it's men's fault, and how men don't give a shit about women's comfort/discomfort.

I agree that society needs to stop conditioning certain behavior of both men and women. I think that at any time, if a person doesn't feel right about where a date is going, they should feel free to speak up without being punished for it. Notice I said person. Not because I have any solid proof that men get pressured into sex or assaulted as much as women, but because when it comes to looking at a group as actual people, it goes both ways.

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NAYRT

I think that at any time, if a person doesn't feel right about where a date is going, they should feel free to speak up without being punished for it.

Well, sure, but that doesn't mean that, if they fail to affirmatively speak up, anything that happens subsequently is obviously reasonable. I mean, if person A is actively trying to convince person B to have sex with them, I think person A has a much bigger moral responsibility for communication, as the person who's initiating, than person B does. They have a responsibility to be certain that there's consent.

Not because I have any solid proof that men get pressured into sex or assaulted as much as women, but because when it comes to looking at a group as actual people, it goes both ways.

Sure, it's useful to talk about it that way, but it can also be useful to be aware of what's actually happening, and what kind of gender relations actually exist in society, if that has an effect on it and if it is weighted by gender.