I've never wanted them. I'm pretty selfish and self-absorbed and I'd resent the hell out of any child I had to devote my life around raising. And to be able to afford them... fuck, I'd have to give up basically all my own hobbies. No thanks.
I don't hate kids and I actually really enjoy babysitting.
But if I had to do it for the long haul, it'd be ugly for all involved and I wouldn't want to put a child through it (children should be with people who want them and love them, not people who'd resent them) and I wouldn't want to put myself through it either.
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I don't hate kids and I actually really enjoy babysitting.
But if I had to do it for the long haul, it'd be ugly for all involved and I wouldn't want to put a child through it (children should be with people who want them and love them, not people who'd resent them) and I wouldn't want to put myself through it either.