[ SECRET POST #4042 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4042 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Louisa May Alcott, Eight Cousins]


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03.
[Jojo's Bizarre Adventure]


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04.
[Mickey Rourke (and Kim Basinger even though the secret's not about her)]


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05.
[Tommy Wiseau and Greg Sestero]


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06.
[Welcome to the Ballroom]


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07.
[Crazy Ex Girlfriend]











Notes:

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Comments

Re: From secret #1

[(Anonymous)]

I've never wanted them. I'm pretty selfish and self-absorbed and I'd resent the hell out of any child I had to devote my life around raising. And to be able to afford them... fuck, I'd have to give up basically all my own hobbies. No thanks.

I don't hate kids and I actually really enjoy babysitting.

But if I had to do it for the long haul, it'd be ugly for all involved and I wouldn't want to put a child through it (children should be with people who want them and love them, not people who'd resent them) and I wouldn't want to put myself through it either.

Re: From secret #1

[(Anonymous)]

This is exactly how I feel as well.

I think that in some ideal alternate life where I had plenty of money to hire a sitter whenever I wanted, and also a loving partner who would do at least half of the parenting, I would probably choose to have a child. There'd probably still be times I would regret it, but I feel like overall it would be a positive thing, and I could still be a good parent.

But as it is, having a child would take more money than I have, and I'm aro/ace so I'd be doing it all solo. And that sounds like hell. I would not be a good parent. I would resent my kid so bad, and then I would hate myself for being horrible to this tiny person who deserves only kindness and nurture.