[ SECRET POST #4095 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4095 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 12 secrets from Secret Submission Post #586.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[fscom]

03. https://i.imgur.com/Krk6nAc.jpg

[morieris]

What

[(Anonymous)]

I don't think that's something you should be ashamed of, especially with someone you're already intimate with anyway

[(Anonymous)]

I doubt your infatuation is anywhere near as obvious to others as you seem to think, OP. Especially if you haven't been like... buying merch, tattooing his name on yourself or building shrines in his honor.

[(Anonymous)]

The fuck is up with people on here? Do you all not know how to hide emotions??

[(Anonymous)]

Right. I don't understand people who have so little control over themselves that they must "stare at their hands" ... I guess to keep from shoving them down their pants and flicking the bean mid movie? Moaning at the sight of th for object of their affection?

[(Anonymous)]

Nayrt but good point. I assume people are just being overly self conscious about this to the point of paranoia but maybe they really can't control their drooling? Lol...

[(Anonymous)]

OP here. It's not like that. I stared at my hands, my cup of tea, or whatever, it makes no difference. I'm pretty sure no one would notice anything unless they'd take my pulse, so perhaps I get embarrassed too easily.

It amuses me to think there might be people who have to try not to moan or shove their hands down their pants while watching a movie or something, though.

[soldatsasha]

... Maybe they're a gay man so their boner would be obvious? idk that's the only answer I can come up with that doesn't make OP sound like the protagonist in a BL manga where if they're confronted with too much sexiness their nose will start to bleed or some stupid shit.

[(Anonymous)]

Depends on the emotion, to be honest?

I can hide almost everything but embarrassment, usually. And the reason I can't hide embarrassment is because with me it literally becomes a physiological response (dizziness, flushing, nausea) that I can't control with ~mind over matter~.

[bio_obscura]

Ahhh I want to know who it is!

[greghousesgf]

me too!

[(Anonymous)]

Me three!

Tell us, OP!

[(Anonymous)]

What an insecure person you just be to be in such an insecure relationship that you get so worked up about a FICTIONAL CHARACTER.

[(Anonymous)]

I thought getting worked up over fictional characters was what F!S was all about? No? My bad. Off to find a furniture upholstery community or something.

[(Anonymous)]

Are you new to fandom?

[(Anonymous)]

No, I'm new to people who are so insecure in their lives that they seem to equate getting all moony over a fictional character with cheating. Staring at their hands. Come on. Get some self esteem.

[(Anonymous)]

Come on, buddy. Don’t be a prick.

[(Anonymous)]

OP - you've posted this secret because you're looking for support etc... and people on here have been such bastards. Ignore them. They're pricks. Anyone can see what this is about if they've not got their head up their arse. You're frightened that you're a bad person for sitting at the side of your partner, who you're finding sexually stimulating to the level of absolutely ZERO and simultaneously getting all hot and bothered and nigh-on wet over a guy on TV. It's the guilt you're feeling making you post this secret.

Please don't feel guilty OP. You're just a human. I too have this. I have a crazy crush on a TV presenter & I get hot (and more) just watching him talk about any old shit. But if my partner's there, I just smile to myself and swoon internally. It's a guilty PLEASURE ;-) Not guilt. And I'll tell you one thing which helps put the guilt at bay - my crush is no better looking than my partner! In fact, my partner is probably BETTER looking! And he has a better body than my crush. Ain't that funny? But it's human to like a bit of variety and that's all you're doing. It doesn't mean you don't lust after your significant other - it's just nice to have a bit of eye candy though isn't it? Life's too short to fret about it. It's great having someone stoke the fires in our loins, fictional or otherwise. Embrace it, OP, and carry on being the perfect human you are.

[(Anonymous)]

Nobody here thinks that OP should feel guilty about this, or that OP is a bad person for this. OP definitely should relax, it's fine, they're fine, everyone's fine, it's not something to be embarrassed about.

[(Anonymous)]

Get a better relationship, tbh. My wife and I watch stuff with people we'd bang all the time. We talk about how hard we would bang them. We tease each other about our bang tastes. It's fun. Try it!

[(Anonymous)]

Right? Like, this is somebody whose asshole you've eaten and you can't talk about what turns you on with them?

[(Anonymous)]

Oh, but you can't say that because it's mean and we're pricks. Didn't you read? This whole thing feels so stuffy and Victorian. OP sounds one hat pin away from getting the vapors.

[(Anonymous)]

Oh, for fuck's sake, get a grip. Share your fantasy man with your husband and role play! If you can't, if you're trapped in that sad, shallow a relationship, get out now.