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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-03-21 06:07 pm

[ SECRET POST #4095 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4095 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2018-03-22 01:19 am (UTC)(link)
OP - you've posted this secret because you're looking for support etc... and people on here have been such bastards. Ignore them. They're pricks. Anyone can see what this is about if they've not got their head up their arse. You're frightened that you're a bad person for sitting at the side of your partner, who you're finding sexually stimulating to the level of absolutely ZERO and simultaneously getting all hot and bothered and nigh-on wet over a guy on TV. It's the guilt you're feeling making you post this secret.

Please don't feel guilty OP. You're just a human. I too have this. I have a crazy crush on a TV presenter & I get hot (and more) just watching him talk about any old shit. But if my partner's there, I just smile to myself and swoon internally. It's a guilty PLEASURE ;-) Not guilt. And I'll tell you one thing which helps put the guilt at bay - my crush is no better looking than my partner! In fact, my partner is probably BETTER looking! And he has a better body than my crush. Ain't that funny? But it's human to like a bit of variety and that's all you're doing. It doesn't mean you don't lust after your significant other - it's just nice to have a bit of eye candy though isn't it? Life's too short to fret about it. It's great having someone stoke the fires in our loins, fictional or otherwise. Embrace it, OP, and carry on being the perfect human you are.

(Anonymous) 2018-03-22 04:14 am (UTC)(link)
Nobody here thinks that OP should feel guilty about this, or that OP is a bad person for this. OP definitely should relax, it's fine, they're fine, everyone's fine, it's not something to be embarrassed about.