[ SECRET POST #4101 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4101 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Coming out to family but not to other family

[(Anonymous)]

Sorry if we've asked this question before: How long have your parents been going to this homophobic church? Is it part of their upbringing, something relatively recent, or somewhere in between?

I don't know your family. This could work out all right, or blow up incredibly badly. You are asking other people to keep a secret. Some of us are actually totally fine with that; some folks aren't.

I think if you do have someone you can talk to about it, be grateful. That means there is hope.

Re: Coming out to family but not to other family

[philstar22]

They've been going to this church for about 10 years (when they are in the US). But they've been homophobic my whole life. And I was too until I learned better. And then gradually realized I was bi. They are both conservative, though not as much as they used to be, and homophobic. I don't think they'd kick me out, maybe. But they would in no way be okay with it, and I don't know what would happen.

(ayrt)

[(Anonymous)]

I just don't know. I come from a background with my large extended family of very churchy people, and a few gay people, and we kind of learned to bite our tongues reflexively? But my super-churchy grandparents were actually really quiet, nice people, too, which I learned later is not the norm for everyone.