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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-03-27 08:58 pm

[ SECRET POST #4101 ]


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Re: Coming out to family but not to other family

(Anonymous) 2018-03-28 01:49 am (UTC)(link)
It's really hard to know whether people know/realize not to tell. I had some friends out me to a classmate without my knowledge. Nothing bad happened, but it still was a thing that should not have been theirs to share. They just didn't know they weren't supposed to tell, because hey I know that person. Made me wonder how many others they'd told before I caught wind of it.

If you can somehow make sure that despite the fact your cousin tells her mom everything, and your aunt talks to your mom a lot, they'd respect the fact that this is not something you want spread, then sure go ahead. But just be wary that some people don't realize that it is a big deal to share that kind of stuff with others without consent.

I'm sorry I wish I had an easy yes or no answer. Talking to them about how it's important to you that you get to decide who knows and when might help.