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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-03-27 08:58 pm

[ SECRET POST #4101 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4101 ⌋

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Re: Coming out to family but not to other family

(Anonymous) 2018-03-28 03:52 am (UTC)(link)
I think it depends on whether or not your cousin can keep a secret, but I personally wouldn't. Everyone YOU think can keep a secret knows someone THEY think can keep a secret.

I could see something like this happening:

You tell your cousin, because you're close and you talk a lot. You can probably trust her not to tell everyone.

But she's close to your aunt, and they talk a lot, and she can trust her own mom not to tell everyone. So she tells your aunt.

And your aunt is close to your mom and they talk a lot. So your aunt tells your mom. Or accidentally lets it slip without meaning to. And now your mom knows.

So, yeah. I wouldn't. Not until you're in a good place financially and able to go live on your own if you need to.