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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-04-13 07:12 pm

[ SECRET POST #4118 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4118 ⌋

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Re: FRIENDS!

[personal profile] soldatsasha 2018-04-14 12:29 am (UTC)(link)
I guess just like, put yourself out there and talk to people?

If you've got some sort of interest/hobby that would help you meet friends, do that. (Like, a gaming group, or M:tG tournaments, or a book club I guess?) Other than that, you just have to talk to people and keep talking to them until they become a friend.

Like, most of my work friends are people I worked on a job with once. And then a year later we worked on a job together again. And then the next year I invited them out for lunch or whatever. And then the year after that we went out to lunch a few times and kept in touch by texting. And then now we're friends. It's definitely more of a longterm process as an adult than as a kid, when you could just walk up to whoever and be like "wanna be friends?"

But besides meeting people at work or through a hobby, I guess you just have to put on your Outgoing Pants and strike up conversations with whoever. I can't help too much with that bc it's something I'm still working on myself. But I've started picking one person a day to interact with when I'm out doing whatever, like the cashier or barista or whatever, and I'll try to give them a compliment or keep the small talk going.