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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-04-28 03:22 pm

[ SECRET POST #4133 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4133 ⌋

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Re: No good deed goes unpunished

(Anonymous) 2018-04-29 01:32 am (UTC)(link)
When I apologized to one of my friends for something insensitive that I'd said to her about a month prior. She was so upset at the time that it caught me off guard and had me saying "I'm so sorry" over and over, but it felt empty and like I owed her a more "proper" apology." So about a month later I told her I wanted to talk and had this thought-out apology prepared. But when I started, she got upset with me again for bringing the issue back up. It turns out she'd forgiven me after her initial upset reaction and knew I hadn't meant to hurt her, and thought it was all in the past, so why was I reminding her again of how much it hurt at the time?

And she was right, looking at it now. My follow up apology was more to make myself feel better than for her. Our relationship itself was fine, and the only problem was my own internal guilt.