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⌈ Secret Post #4136 ⌋

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Nope. Nothing against people who choose to have children IRL but I don't like to read about it in fanfiction and definitely NOT as a kink.

tbh the fact that you find it horrifying probably *is* why the implications are hot to you in context though

risk, transgression, power, etc, that's strong hindbrain stuff

anyway personally I hate 'cum' because it feels like a childish mispelling. 'jizz' I think should be used sparingly depending on whether it's a word the character himself would use/think. 'Seed' always seems kind of silly and overwrought to me, though. I tend to use 'come,' or just semen. Or descriptions that aren't epithets, like 'the white mess on his skin' or whatever.

Uh... thanks for trying to argue that I have a kink I just told you I'm not into? Maybe I'm misunderstanding you when you say "impregnation kink", but let me be clear: people getting pregnant or risking betting pregnant is NOT something I want to read about in fic, whether in a kinky sense or even in a normal context.

I am the person who started this thread and I just want to be clear that AYRT is not me.

I do endorse their post though (even if it's not correct, it was definitely where I was coming from).

yeah, sorry for the confusion!

I was trying to say that the seeming contradiction between actual repulsion about pregnancy and hotness in a word vaguely connected to pregnancy makes a lot of sense in terms of the ways brains can process and eroticize our fears around sexual things

it's not the same as having a kink and definitely doesn't ""prove"" you have one or whatever, but it's probably the same underlying mental process. Way different points on the same spectrum.

I think people are allowed to be disgusted by stuff and not have some anon on the internet insist that they're secretly into everything that horrifies them.

Fertility fetishes are okay, but please leave aside pseudoscience and pop psychology to keep accusing people of things that are disgusting to them. It's kinda rude, and not a way to gain friends. :(

NAYRT

Well. So. I agree. But I don't think our argument is about pop psychology or about insisting people are secretly into stuff they say they aren't. If the secret was just "i am horrified by pregnancy", it would be an entirely different matter.

It's specifically the fact that OP said that using "seed" as a euphemism for cum is hot. That is the specific reason that AYRT and I thought this was the case. We are not doing what you said we are doing, at all.

I see where you're coming (lol) from because the secret does say "I find that inexplicably hot," but choosing to focus on that phrase over all means that one has removed all of its context. After all, the secret was a complaint about bad word choice in literotica, how 'cum' and 'jizz' are boner-killers but 'seed' was okay. The OP quickly states that they're not sure why (keyword: "inexplicably") 'seed' was more acceptable than 'jizz' and 'cum', but they quickly qualified that pregnancy connotations horrified them.

If I may assume, it seems that you want to clarify to OP that the reason they find 'seed' more suitable is because of a latent pregnancy fetish (despite OP having ultimate authority on that matter, and saying that they don't in the comments).

But may I present a more charitable explanation for why OP finds the use of 'seed' as better? It's simply because 'seed' is a regular word, and doesn't have any of the jokey mood that 'cum' and 'jizz' would. The word choice sounds like something that might come out from a proper printed novel.

OP swears they don't have a pregnancy fetish, and for that reason I'm willing to abort this conversation.

One note here: pregnancy kink is very much not the same as impregnation kink imo

Please take my post in good faith and assume I can edit that in my post. I hope my point still stands.

I think your point is mostly still fair! But it does affect the point, because the point that the other anon and I were making (before OP commented to clarify) was not just that OP found pregnancy itself hot. Fetishizing the act of being impregnated, or the idea of that act, is a different thing from fetishizing the state of actually being pregnant.

So I think it's really just a little more nuanced, is all.

But OP said that they like neither pregnancy nor the act of being impregnated. I take it that they just think that the words jizz and cum are way too goofy to be taken seriously in porn.

Dude, just stop. You're trying to pass this off as rational discourse but your insistence has gone past the point of creepy.

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